the other day my sis asked, n i recalled why i named the ex blog "seasons of blame"...
at the time when i created it, there were many thoughts in me about blame... sth happened then, which surfaced the obvious... when sth happens, people seek to blame... sometimes almost a hysteria... so the question is can u even care to notice it as an outsider? because when ur a witness, most probably u'll be embroiled in the blaming game as well...
more significantly, i proved to myself tt i do also seek to find sth or someone to blame... n tts why im disappointed, in this fact about us...
in this i mean blaming sth, or someone, even if it's urself, when things go wrong... when things don't go accordin to plan, we want to pinpoint, like what they call "troubleshootin", or "after action review", or plain "learnin from mistakes"... but i think, we blame, coz we don't wanna look bad; we want to look like we know the fault; we want to feel like we are in control... this is a fact, not a revelation...
not forgettin we will always try to be less conspicuous n blame sth or someone else 1st... unless its bloody obvious the blame's on us...
it is a bitter pill to swallow about us humans... like many of these other pills we find to swallow every day...
haha, seasons of blame.
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