色难

子夏问孝，子曰：色难，有事，弟子服其劳，有酒食，先生馔，曾是以为孝乎？

色难，容易

不经一番寒彻骨 怎得梅花扑鼻香

poignant

in my final ICT, I booked out to attend the wedding of the girl who stuck with me through NS 15 years ago. life can be stranger than fiction.

"if we admit that human life can be ruled by reason, then all possibility of life is destroyed."