Wednesday, September 28, 2016

Monday, September 26, 2016

Sunday, September 25, 2016

"蔷儿的妈妈要蔷儿别游手好闲,朵儿的妈妈说朵儿需要个帮手,碰巧他们的妈妈是同一个人。"

Monday, September 19, 2016

Friday, September 16, 2016

"you don't have enough talent to win on talent alone."

Thursday, September 15, 2016

Tuesday, September 13, 2016

爱情拥有各种形式的终点 遗憾却没有尽头

Thursday, September 08, 2016

management 101

J is a mediocre middle-level manager who doesn't command the respect of her team. T is sort of a 2IC who commands the respect of his team.

T is known to point out colleagues' mistakes. one day, he and his colleagues didn't hesitate to point out J's mistake publicly.

given her position, if J had put her hands up, she would've scored some points within the team. after all, the reward that comes with humility at a higher position is always higher.

but given J's track record it was no surprise how she escalated it into a demonstration of what you should never do.

she not just doubled down, which was already a surefire way to lose points, true to form she attempted muddling and diverting the matter.

this only works if you can fool your audience.

worse, J scapegoated T, the last person she should have scapegoated.

the episode, one of many, ended with no clear resolution. but as J had no legs to stand on, everyone on the team saw through her act, and her reputation took a further hit. moreover, by villifying T the influencer, J lost more than she gained.

this is a classic example of winning one battle but losing the war.

Wednesday, September 07, 2016

Friday, September 02, 2016

"做兄弟 在心中 你感觉不到 我说一万句都是废话"