game changers

they changed the game.

three close friends made important remarks over the last 12 months which opened my eyes (and heart) to a lot of things, chief of it all being you.

X said, "your kind of girl isnt that unconventional or diverse actually, contrary to what you often say. A had it, B had it, and now the more i study H the more i see it. they all have a certain air to them. look, when A changed, your heart changed too."

doesn matter whether i agree with X or not. fact is, that reinforced 'you'.

Y said, "to be honest i had a lot of reservations about you and B. i remember the spark in your eyes during the times with A, when she said yes... but that spark wasnt there with B."

i have, admittedly, found that spark again, with you.

and Z said, "you know you always tell me about the girls in your life and after so many years, what you think is the perfect girl for you. well, you might not admit it now, but this one, sounds to me closest to your idea of perfection."